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When I was a kid, then a "tween" (how aggravating is that term?), and then a full-fledged teenager, girls talked more than boys.  I'm not stereotyping here, that was my clear cut experience, hands down.  We were on the phone more, gossiped more, passed more notes (that's communicating!).

I'm sure there are evolutionary reasons for this and I'm also aware that every rule has it's exception or two, so while not every single female talks more than every male, there is an element of reality here.

Well, it's my theory that things are changing.  And it's Apple's doing.  The iChat has revolutionized communication in more ways than one.  I know not every kid has a Mac (or even any type of computer), but I'd bet that those who do, chat and communicate in unprecedented numbers.

My son (a boy) was doing homework with his laptop on (and apparently the iChat program open) so that all of his "contacts" would know that he was "available."  Every couple of minutes I heard the computer ringing and he would either "decline" or "accept" the call.  Often he accepted it and would chat with whoever was calling.

I don't remember any boys growing up who enjoyed talking on the phone.  Maybe the cool technology draws the boys in, I'm not sure.  All I know is boys are chatting, a lot.

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